Your Big, "Impossible" Thing scares the crap out of you.
You literally have no clue what the first step is in getting what you dream of...and admitting that feels vulnerable, like you have no business dreaming of something you don't know how to start, let alone achieve.
I have news for you:
YOU'RE ENTITLED TO WANT SOMETHING REGARDLESS OF YOUR KNOWING HOW TO GET IT.
Not knowing should never be the reason you don't pursue your Thing.
Look around you! There are RESOURCES everywhere! In the form of people! People who know what you don't positively abound on this planet!
Some of my clients have believed they've discovered an exception to this (they haven't): "But what if I don't know what I don't know? Then, how do I figure out where to start, what questions to ask, who I need to hire to help me first?"
YOU FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL ASK ➡️YOU ⬅️ THE QUESTIONS.
You find someone who doesn't care what you think you know or what you think you don't know. Someone who doesn't believe your Stories about yourself, your litanies of self-diagnosed shortcomings, your limitations. Someone who will shower you with questions like it's her job (because it is).
If you're nodding your head because you don't know what you don't know about going after your Thing, I have two things to say to you:
1. It's more common than you think (in other words, you're not alone), and
2. get a coach on your team right now.
Share a sentence or two about what you don’t know in the comments below (or email me privately to start a conversation, which we can take to the phone). If I can't help you, I'll refer you to someone who can. Resources abound!